I have finally managed to calm down but yesterday was just the day from hell.
Basically i got a text yesterday saying "hi" and i asked who it was and he said Bryan (my ex) so Danial took over and tried to find out why he was contacting me anyway hes there being all nice and stuff and then turns round and basically says, anyway i just wanted to tell you that i was cheating on you from the beginning of the relationship and i was an excuse to get away from david (his house mate and boss) for a couple of hours. Take into mind i left me family and friends and fell out with ppl and lost my job and home to move to Nottingham for a lie. (his loss)
My ex turned arond and said that i had roped danial into having a kid and that to me "kid = money" and that he hopes we enjoy our long lonely jobless nights basically calling us lazy bastards for not getting jobs.
So Danial just let it drop and Bryan sent one last text so i got in touch with Dawn the lass who he was cheating on who was supposed to be my friend while i was with him...and said can you and your boyfriend leave me alone, i find it amusing he has got in touch with me and called me all these things when hes as black as a fucking reject sheep - drinking all the time and thinking its alright to knock women and kids about. Anyway she was going on saying she didnt think it was me that it was one of their old friends texting them and asked me to prove it was me i just said look i cant be arsed leave me and my family alone.
She said bryans been up in ireland for the past three weeks (even though bryan said he was sat next to dawn) and that she was going to take my number and the "threatening texts" to her soliciters So i left it and me and danial just forgot about it we got a prank call off an unknown number - dan answered but it cut dead - a little while later we got a text of dawn saying i know this isnt tia im calling the police and they will trace your number and charge you....
So Danial lost his rag tried ringing her, she wouldnt answer therefor not letting us prove it was me - so danial said any further texts and WE will ring the police.
Its not the fact that he's got back in touch - although thats pissed me off - its not the fact that he said all that crap cause as far as i am concerned ive grown up got a loving man and a beautiful daughter - what REALLY irritates me is she has dragged me and my family into a dispute that SHOULDNT involve us - its been over a year and a half since i spoke or saw either of them and now we're gettin harrassing texts off them. Today im going to figure out how to block their numbers because i'll be buggered if they are gonna try and tear my family apart.
I'm sorry i just really needed to rant - grrrr children - some grow up and some dont ...